LOVE AAJKAL !

LOVE AAJKAL………………..
Hmmmm now all must be be thinking ,what does she mean by love aajkal ? Is she influenced by the movie, I mean y love aajkal. Lemme help you with the question , ie : WHAT IS LOVE AAJKAL ???
Love a very pure and scared feeling. This word comprises of feelings, emotions, trust, honesty, respect , care, attachment, and a special click a magic ! Now it’s a feeling, that means we love our parents, friends, siblings, pets or whatever we are attached with . And when it is for a girl or boy it’s a bit special…..u understand what I mean, ahem ahem………………..
But I guess love aajkal has love no where. The word love has vanished, I won’t say it has vanished completely but yes under process. I don’t know what is so wrong with the mango people. I really want to know, is there any problem with the manufacturing process or what ????? Because earlier it wasn’t like this, I mean the situation was still good. Today in a relationship we will find everything, fun, togetherness , quality time , drama, lots of crap, dishonesty, disrespect and the most important thing , intimacy…..huhhh I mean physical relationship . Oh but something is missing…..now whats that? AHH found it, its LOVE , remember feelings, emotions, honesty, etc.
Today in a relationship, the word love is manipulated, it’s a need , just for the sake of being with someone, for fun, for sex , attraction or anything but atleast not for love or feelings. That’s the reason, the word break off, broke up is so frequently heard. Whether its a short term relation or a long one, say 6-7 yrs, 8-9yrs, they break so easily, as if it was never true as if it was all fake. where is faith, where is committment? I don’t understand what ‘s wrong, nowdays you can’t trust, no feelings, emotions , heartless people,there is dishonesty, disrespect, using a person financially, mentally, physically or any way out, what is this, how can a person be so unethical and cruel. Values, kindness all these words have vanished, today people don’t understand such words, they can’t relate to it ! Relationships have become so fake, and so uncertain, so inconsistent that you never know what is next . whenever I call my old friends iam always afraid n feel awkward to ask about their boyfriend/girlfriend, cause I don’t know what I will get to hear. All I hear is , we broke up, he/she ditched me, he/she was seeing someone else, I dumped him etc . But why all this ? Today a person with true feelings, emotions and honesty is called fool. Why ? IS IT MATERIALIZATION, JOKE OF OUR VALUES, IS IT ALL ABOUT SEX ?????
ARE WE REALLY GROWING AND DEVELOPING ?????? I mean how can people turn so inconsistent . It’s really very shame full, love and relationships have become a subject of joke, fun , need and sex. And if this continues we will die alone. Iam no love guru, can’t teach anybody anything , iam a simple girl who has expressed her point of view on these days relationships, so called LOVEAAJKAL. I can just say, for me love is a beautiful feeling, feel the happiness of togetherness, have faith , respect your partner and your relationship with honesty, and try to be consistent. There is no point fooling and faking around. Dats all ………………!

Thankyou

Do we really love our parents ???

DO WE REALLY LOVE OUR PARENTS ???
This is one question we should ask ourselves…..By this question I mean do we really love them or just need them, to fulfill our needs. I have realized that most of us don’t sit with never spend time with them, we don’t share our feeling or thoughts with them, because we think that they won’t understand. But is it a fault or a generation gap, let it b any reason , we can just escape giving reasons. But our parents don’t give lame excuses , nor they try to escape. How easily we invest our everything for a guy or a gal . If the person is worth then the investment is still fruitful, but what if he/she is not worth. We cry and get back to our parents for their support and affection, and if we can’t do that we try to move on or do whatever that helps us to get out of that situation. Our parents silently forgive us, although they understand everything but still they accept us. . But do we realize all this…? We don’t have any idea what we owe to our parents !! They do everything to make us happy , there love and affection is priceless . Love is the most beautiful gift , so loving a person is no harm but we should never forget this that we have our other responsibilities aswell, towards our career, education, family. Most importantly our parents expect a lot from us, and we are nobody to ruin that just for our own selfish motives. We become so selfish and just think of our pain, our problems and we don’t even try to understand and forget their sufferings . Don’t you think that it’s a sin that we hurt our parents, break their trust, their dreams and make them cry. Its not about being into a relationship and hurting or neglecting your parents, it can be anything. It depends on us on our activities, our living, and how balance things. Its something that how we set our priorities . So whatever happens good or bad we should never forget the love and affection, contributions of our lovable parents . Afterall it’s something in our roots,our culture, love , affection , respect & care .We should never forget this and should be proud of our own culture and our roots. Parents are something not meant for need, they are everything to us…we get our respective identities from them. How can we forget their contributions. Thankfully, after lot of ups n downs I have realized . Life has taught me a good lesson, it’s a new chapter….I DON’T BELIEVE IN GOD, BUT THANX TO MY STARS THAT I AM GIFTED WITH THE MOST LOVABLE PARENTS OF THIS WORLD. I BELIEVE IN MY PARENTS….THEY ARE MY GOD, and I can proudly say that I worship them. I love you momdad , and can do anything for you . Thanx for everything !

Introduction

Hi mango people.............

Iam Tanya Mukherjee, you can call me taani or tanu. Iam a bong,born n broughtup in UP.
Iam very talkative bt at d same time moody, i luv spending time wid my frnds and family. love music, painting, swimming,dancing[its my passion,in my blood] and taking care of pets n plants, so you can call me a nature lover.
About me :
Softhearted, caring, loving, short tempered, faithful, straightforward, bold, honest.
Favourite colour- Pink,black, yellow and white......
Favourite food - Chicken biryani, chinese,punjabi, dimsums, anything mommade n yummy.
Favourite Movies - its a long list....DDLJ, hahk, Titanic, american beauty, bend it like becham, love ajkal,jab we met....n a nva ending chain.

abhi k liye itni itroduction ......rest u all ll get to know me...!