Thursday, October 1, 2009

LOVE AAJKAL !

LOVE AAJKAL………………..
Hmmmm now all must be be thinking ,what does she mean by love aajkal ? Is she influenced by the movie, I mean y love aajkal. Lemme help you with the question , ie : WHAT IS LOVE AAJKAL ???
Love a very pure and scared feeling. This word comprises of feelings, emotions, trust, honesty, respect , care, attachment, and a special click a magic ! Now it’s a feeling, that means we love our parents, friends, siblings, pets or whatever we are attached with . And when it is for a girl or boy it’s a bit special…..u understand what I mean, ahem ahem………………..
But I guess love aajkal has love no where. The word love has vanished, I won’t say it has vanished completely but yes under process. I don’t know what is so wrong with the mango people. I really want to know, is there any problem with the manufacturing process or what ????? Because earlier it wasn’t like this, I mean the situation was still good. Today in a relationship we will find everything, fun, togetherness , quality time , drama, lots of crap, dishonesty, disrespect and the most important thing , intimacy…..huhhh I mean physical relationship . Oh but something is missing…..now whats that? AHH found it, its LOVE , remember feelings, emotions, honesty, etc.
Today in a relationship, the word love is manipulated, it’s a need , just for the sake of being with someone, for fun, for sex , attraction or anything but atleast not for love or feelings. That’s the reason, the word break off, broke up is so frequently heard. Whether its a short term relation or a long one, say 6-7 yrs, 8-9yrs, they break so easily, as if it was never true as if it was all fake. where is faith, where is committment? I don’t understand what ‘s wrong, nowdays you can’t trust, no feelings, emotions , heartless people,there is dishonesty, disrespect, using a person financially, mentally, physically or any way out, what is this, how can a person be so unethical and cruel. Values, kindness all these words have vanished, today people don’t understand such words, they can’t relate to it ! Relationships have become so fake, and so uncertain, so inconsistent that you never know what is next . whenever I call my old friends iam always afraid n feel awkward to ask about their boyfriend/girlfriend, cause I don’t know what I will get to hear. All I hear is , we broke up, he/she ditched me, he/she was seeing someone else, I dumped him etc . But why all this ? Today a person with true feelings, emotions and honesty is called fool. Why ? IS IT MATERIALIZATION, JOKE OF OUR VALUES, IS IT ALL ABOUT SEX ?????
ARE WE REALLY GROWING AND DEVELOPING ?????? I mean how can people turn so inconsistent . It’s really very shame full, love and relationships have become a subject of joke, fun , need and sex. And if this continues we will die alone. Iam no love guru, can’t teach anybody anything , iam a simple girl who has expressed her point of view on these days relationships, so called LOVEAAJKAL. I can just say, for me love is a beautiful feeling, feel the happiness of togetherness, have faith , respect your partner and your relationship with honesty, and try to be consistent. There is no point fooling and faking around. Dats all ………………!

Thankyou