DO WE REALLY LOVE OUR PARENTS ???
This is one question we should ask ourselves…..By this question I mean do we really love them or just need them, to fulfill our needs. I have realized that most of us don’t sit with never spend time with them, we don’t share our feeling or thoughts with them, because we think that they won’t understand. But is it a fault or a generation gap, let it b any reason , we can just escape giving reasons. But our parents don’t give lame excuses , nor they try to escape. How easily we invest our everything for a guy or a gal . If the person is worth then the investment is still fruitful, but what if he/she is not worth. We cry and get back to our parents for their support and affection, and if we can’t do that we try to move on or do whatever that helps us to get out of that situation. Our parents silently forgive us, although they understand everything but still they accept us. . But do we realize all this…? We don’t have any idea what we owe to our parents !! They do everything to make us happy , there love and affection is priceless . Love is the most beautiful gift , so loving a person is no harm but we should never forget this that we have our other responsibilities aswell, towards our career, education, family. Most importantly our parents expect a lot from us, and we are nobody to ruin that just for our own selfish motives. We become so selfish and just think of our pain, our problems and we don’t even try to understand and forget their sufferings . Don’t you think that it’s a sin that we hurt our parents, break their trust, their dreams and make them cry. Its not about being into a relationship and hurting or neglecting your parents, it can be anything. It depends on us on our activities, our living, and how balance things. Its something that how we set our priorities . So whatever happens good or bad we should never forget the love and affection, contributions of our lovable parents . Afterall it’s something in our roots,our culture, love , affection , respect & care .We should never forget this and should be proud of our own culture and our roots. Parents are something not meant for need, they are everything to us…we get our respective identities from them. How can we forget their contributions. Thankfully, after lot of ups n downs I have realized . Life has taught me a good lesson, it’s a new chapter….I DON’T BELIEVE IN GOD, BUT THANX TO MY STARS THAT I AM GIFTED WITH THE MOST LOVABLE PARENTS OF THIS WORLD. I BELIEVE IN MY PARENTS….THEY ARE MY GOD, and I can proudly say that I worship them. I love you momdad , and can do anything for you . Thanx for everything !
well said tanya..at times we do get selfish,no matter how good children we are, but Parents never do. Thats the beauty of our culture and our value system. i hope we value more and return as much love as we can.
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